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Despite the bad news, I had some other thoughts to share. Sharon and I this past weekend drove up to Louisville, KY, where her sister and brother-in-law, the Holladays, live (lots of grammatical gymnastics in that last sentence. That's kind of my trademark/Achille's, isn't it?). We had a Dr. Mario tournament with the four of us plus Sharon's younger sis, Heather, and her boyfriend Devon. It was a rockin' good time.

What surprised me about the trip was the reflection that resulted from it. I leave you with an excerpt from my not-on-the-Interwebs journal:
I had such a great time in Louisville with Beth and Drew -- it felt like it awakened a sense of optimism in me that had until this weekend been lying dormant or otherwise distracted -- but it was a glimpse into what could be our future -- one with family nearby -- a family of peers! Not just parents, God bless them all the same, but peers! Brothers, sisters, cousins, a community! Maybe not the idyllic collegiate ministry for which we find ourselves waxing nostalgic, but maybe at least a neighborhood? Even one separated by manageable commutes, but also with a new understanding (at least for me) of what a family, a neighborhood, and/or a community looks like! The glass is half-full and filling!
It was a time of soaring imagination and hope-- a moment and emotion that I don't think I've encountered in a while.
i cried reading your thoughts - your sense of optimism is shared here by drew and i. i cannot express how much we long to live near you and sharon, the cousins, aunts and uncles, etc.
ReplyDeleteeach day our paths seem to be confusedly moving in a million directions, but i want to be wherever you guys are.
especially sharon and her 'most beautiful babies ever'